“The mother-child relationship is paradoxical and, in a sense, tragic. It requires the most intense love on the mother's side, yet this very love must help the child grow away from the mother, and to become fully independent.”-Fromm.
According to Germaine Greer infanticide is the"dark, secret side of motherhood itself, Greer's claim that "motherhood, like nature herself, is red in tooth and claw".
This emphasis on the role of the unconscious in the perception of destructive violence against infants and children is disturbing precisely because it suggests the ambiguous relationship between prohibition and desire (Freuds id and super ego and the fight in between). Attachment theory says, parents of children with disorganized attachments often have a loss or abuse in their own past that they have not worked through fully. This previous trauma appears to lead the Mother to act in ways that are either frightening (e.g., scaring the child/i might kill you) or frightened (e.g., treating child as if he or she could hurt/kill the mother). These mothers are said to be "unresolved" with regard to attachment.
Mother You have tamils blood on your hand.
